那些一生怕丢脸的大人，在这部纪录片里坦白了
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.6em;' data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br></p><p style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><br></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: center; text-indent: 0em;'>电影《出走的决心》上线之后，女主角的原型苏敏，再次吸引了公众的视线。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: center; text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: center; text-indent: 0em;'>她曾因在婚姻中不堪重负，于56岁那年毅然选择开车自驾出游。从拿起车钥匙的一刻起，她便在尝试“换一种活法”。这一决定，让她迅速成为互联网热门话题。其后4年，公众但凡讨论</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>“婚姻”</span><span style='font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: center; text-indent: 0em;'>和</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>“自我价值”</span><span style='font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: center; text-indent: 0em;'>，必然会提到苏敏。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: center; text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-indent: 0em;'>就是这位阿姨，昨天又上热搜了：</span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><br></section><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>图源：新浪微博热搜</span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'><br></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><span style='caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136); color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'>图源：抖音热榜<span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span><span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span></p><p style='text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><span style='caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136); color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'><br></span></p><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'>原来，在纪实访谈系列片《谈论，大声点》里，苏敏阿姨再次作为主角出镜，谈论自己过往的人生。她对着镜头说，在经历了一系列的婚姻坎坷后，</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>如今，</span><span style='color: rgb(255, 20, 164);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'>自己已经离婚了</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'>同时，在这部纪录片里，</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>苏敏还回应了网上关于她把家事曝光、把家丑外扬的种种非议。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><br></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: center; text-indent: 0em;'>“家丑你不外扬我不外扬，人们生生世世、世世代代就这样， 这样就对吗？”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: center; text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);height: auto;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;'>▲面对“家丑不可外扬”的质疑，苏敏显得很坚定，她说自己只是说出了自己生活的现状。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>《谈论，大声点》，可能是今年最敢说的国产纪实访谈系列片。</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>它集齐了那些令人难以启齿的问题：</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>离婚、家丑、对钱的渴望、更年期、灾难羞耻、残疾、抑郁、网暴……</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'><span style='text-align: center;'>看了第一集的正片和一些花絮之后，只能说：</span>这套片子，太有种了。</span></section><section style='text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);letter-spacing: 0.034em;'> </span></section><section class="channels_iframe_wrp"><mp-common-videosnap class="js_uneditable custom_select_card channels_iframe videosnap_video_iframe" data-pluginname="mpvideosnap" data-url="https://findermp.video.qq.com/251/20304/stodownload?encfilekey=rjD5jyTuFrIpZ2ibE8T7YmwgiahniaXswqzQZSG2QFyu7IuenjGhPXbhXia2WQAY5BoIPc65Dly4XvcDFYribBf2O6jJX0kibxh4gib69vfzibTp9D0wD9ib5hQqlXw&token=6xykWLEnztJic14j5EuwldEPXkRAImhcAzHGpLuSCFCrriaLrTKptdcQYRpsE50LCCdImGo6cUSzRrC3oyWFUcmfShkibnsDmILXCPkxvaYRrm7YQxeXHriawAcibwmeU7ebC&idx=1&hy=SH&m=&scene=2&uzid=2" data-headimgurl="http://wx.qlogo.cn/finderhead/iatLPiaDK7HZbf9ZpugIicoQjlKLOSuvKdUNgFSqIjlRI4/0" data-username="v2_060000231003b20faec8c7e2811bc6d2c901e436b07752016759431949aea223c7ddd72767aa@finder" data-nickname="三联生活实验室" data-desc="偏见、家丑、网暴、钱、残疾、更年期......哪些话题，我们常常面对，但选择避而不谈？在成长的路上，有多少人只能独自奔跑，榜样无迹可寻，路径歪歪扭扭？如今我们要让这些困境明明白白地摊开，大大方方地分享 。我们要谈论，要大声谈论！在即将重磅上线的纪实访谈《谈论，大声点》中，我们讲述了六段成长故事：55岁决定出走的@50岁阿姨自驾游 苏敏、从一流运动员退役多年重启人生的@邓亚萍 、著名主持人同时又是创业者的@李静 、从汶川地震中重新站起来的@春游哥哥 、清华毕业转行当游戏主播的@女流 ......她们有人已乘风破浪，轻舟已过万重山；有的人仍迷雾环绕，只缘身在此山中。那些不敢说的、不好说的话题，今天都要被大声地、无所畏惧地谈论。你，准备好加入，与她同行了吗？12月4日，《谈论，大声点》第一期@50岁阿姨自驾游 苏敏的故事，即将上线。 #出走的决心 #邓亚萍 #李静 #女流 #女性 @微信时刻 " data-nonceid="6199946056941106472" data-type="video" data-mediatype="undefined" data-authiconurl="https://dldir1v6.qq.com/weixin/checkresupdate/icons_filled_channels_authentication_enterprise_a2658032368245639e666fb11533a600.png" data-from="new" data-width="1920" data-height="1080" data-id="export/UzFfAgtgekIEAQAAAAAA5UILLSLcmQAAAAstQy6ubaLX4KHWvLEZgBPEuKNAf05GOYeKzNPgMIsio5F2wjz0Fy_4VjDvjipc" data-isdisabled="0" data-errortips=""></mp-common-videosnap></section><p style='text-align: center; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.6em; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><span style='font-size: 13px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 2px;'>纪实系列访谈《谈论，大声点》第一季 预告片</span></p><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>谈钱，有什么羞耻的。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>《谈论，大声点》第一集的主角苏敏说：不管是什么人，你离了钱能生活吗？</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><p style='text-align: center; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 12px;'>▲</span><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 12px;'>苏敏在赚钱之后，收到了不少恶评。</span></span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>苏敏今年60岁，在她的人生中，那些曾经把她困在原地的处境，都或多或少和经济无法独立有关：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'>学习成绩很好，但因为家里需要钱，</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>苏敏急着毕业赚钱，没有高考</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'>；<span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>婚后发现自己的婚姻并不像想象的那样，不赚钱不够生活：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-indent: 0em; display: none; line-height: 0px;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>“我24岁结的婚，当时人们都说我是老姑娘了，背后的人都说也不知道她在挑什么。</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>我不想别具一格，我希望别人有的幸福，我也有。</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><br></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);height: auto;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;'>▲</span><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;'>苏敏24岁结婚，谈及结婚的理由，苏敏说当时自己已经算是“老姑娘”了。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><br></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'>苏敏的青年时代，社会给一个年轻女性的选择很少，因为大家都说“嫁汉嫁汉，穿衣吃饭”。</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-indent: 0em;text-align: center;'>然而婚后，所有的花销丈夫都跟她实行AA制。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-indent: 0em;text-align: center;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-indent: 0em;text-align: center;'>作为已婚已孕的女性，她很难找到稳定工作。为了赚钱，她“扫马路、送报纸，包括泥瓦工我都当过，</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-indent: 0em;text-align: center;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>因为当时我就知道，你不能依靠任何人，只能靠你自己。</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-indent: 0em;text-align: center;'>”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-indent: 0em;text-align: center;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 546px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.6em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;'>▲婚后，苏敏从事过很多体力工作。<span style='display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.6em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'>56岁，她决定开车出游。因为车上的ETC卡绑定着前夫的银行卡，前夫收到扣款信息，打电话过来大骂她。</span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>离婚了，自驾旅游的她，更需要钱：</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;display: none;line-height: 0px;'></span></section><section style='text-align: justify; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;'><br></span></section><p style='text-align: center; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='text-indent: 0em; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-align: center;'>▲苏敏的粉丝会帮苏敏在评论区回复恶评。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>谈起钱来，苏敏非常坦荡。“这些恶评都不用我自己回复，网友就会替我去回复了。不要在意这些声音。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>饱尝了没有经济自由的苦，苏敏没有任何赚钱羞耻。《谈论，大声点》问她害怕什么时，她说她不怕老去，也不怕死去，</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>唯一害怕的事情只有一件——害怕自己的钱花完了，自己就没有钱出去旅游了。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 546px;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;'>▲如今的苏敏，显得很是“无惧”。她不害怕老去，不害怕死去，只害怕钱用完了，自己没有钱去旅行了。她想一直在路上。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>56岁这一年的出走，并不是苏敏的第一次决心。在此之前，她已经决定了太多次。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><br></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>第一次可能是在上学时</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>，每天放了学就要回家给三个弟弟蒸馒头，揉面和面，无尽无止：<br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>还有一次，可能是她刚上</span><span style='color: rgb(255, 20, 164);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>班时：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>这一次次的决心的种子，在她56岁时才真正实现，</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>实现的原因，可能正包含了经济的独立</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><br></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>除了钱和家丑，《谈论，大声点》里还有其他不常被谈论的问题。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><br></section><p line="PZic" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>乒乓球世界冠军邓亚萍，从十岁开始就被人质疑：“之前全球没有这么矮的人，能拿世界冠军。”</span></p><p line="PZic" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></span></p><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></section><p line="sHdW" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>她不服，</span><span style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>为什么别人能进国家队，国家队的门槛对邓亚萍来说就这么高？</span></p><p line="sHdW" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><br></p><p line="vJQm" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>著名主持人李静，她正在遭遇“难以启齿”的更年期的危机。因为更年期，她才理解了自己的母亲：“我妈妈在更年期的时候非常不好过，后来她给我描述，我当时有点内疚。</span><span style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>我作为一个女儿我不知道我妈在经历更年期去我不知道她那么孤立无援，自己在外面深夜一圈一圈走。</span><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>”</span></p><p line="hluS" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></span></p><p line="hluS" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>多年来，主持人其实只是她人生的五分之一，另外五分之四是创业者，她说</span><span style='outline: 0px; color: rgb(255, 20, 164); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>“我看到了太多成功的男性，我为什么不能成为你呢？”</span></p><p line="hluS" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span style='outline: 0px; color: rgb(255, 20, 164); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'><br></span></p><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></section><p line="pVOW" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>名校毕业后，当网红游戏主播的女流，在走红后却一直被公众所质疑。</span></p><p line="pVOW" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><br></p><p line="W8BW" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>她不解，名校毕业后做游戏主播，</span><span style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>就是对不起父母的培养，对不起清华？我自己呢？</span></p><p line="W8BW" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'><br></span></p><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></section><p line="SuZx" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>从汶川地震里幸存，却永远失去了一条腿的春游哥哥，亲眼目睹自己的同学在地震中死亡。</span></p><p line="SuZx" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></span></p><p line="6TrS" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span data-copy-origin="https://shimo.im" style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px;'>她遭遇过成百上千对残疾人的歧视，但也决定不再软弱，</span><span style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>死都那么恐怖了，还有什么活不下去的？</span></p><p line="6TrS" ql-global-para="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: "PingFang SC", system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);'><span style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 2px; color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'><br></span></p><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(238, 33, 234);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.6em;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>自驾游之前，苏敏甚至没有一项自己的爱好。</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>她没有时间思考自己到底喜欢什么。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>桎梏中的苏敏把自己的故事大声讲出来后，她也收获了更多的共鸣。她在微博里说：“真的很荣幸，我的生活被拍成了电影，让我有更大的勇气去追求我想要的生活。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>在旅途中，苏敏最喜欢的是森林，喜欢它的辽阔与不变。</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>她曾在新疆的可可托海抬头看到漫天星辰，感慨道：“这一生要多看看，多走走，多转转。”她相信，当自己将来老到走不动时，可以回忆起这一段旅途，并为自己感到骄傲。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>曾有人质疑她，如此自揭“家丑”，“好像我要把全国的女同胞都鼓动出来一样”。但苏敏回应道：“其实他们理解错了，假如说你的家庭，就是把她看得很重很尊重她，你让她走她都不会走。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>如今，她坦然地面对曾困住自己的婚姻。“我现在既不喜欢结婚，也不喜欢离婚，我就喜欢平平淡淡的生活。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><br></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>同她一样，在纪实访谈系列片《谈论，大声点》中，人们大声说出了这些总被回避的故事。曾经人们惧怕谈论它们，</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>以为看向别处，伤害和苦痛，就会原地淡化乃至消失。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>但现在，越来越多的人意识到，想要寻找自己的出路，去过想要的生活，就要从直面不堪、直面自己开始。</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'></span><span style='font-size: var(--articleFontsize);text-align: center;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.034em;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.6em;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><br></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>由三联生活实验室自制的纪实访谈系列片《谈论，大声点》，从12月4日开始，每周三更新一集。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>你可以在</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>腾讯视频</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>上观看加长版，昨天第一集苏敏上线半天后，即冲上腾讯视频纪录片社会榜第一；</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'><br></span></section><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;border-color: rgb(233, 14, 110);border-style: solid;border-width: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; caret-color: rgb(0, 0, 0); color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible;'><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>你也可以在三联生活周刊的</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>微博</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>和</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>抖音</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>，三联生活实验室的</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>小红书</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>、</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>bilibili</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>和</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;color: rgb(255, 20, 164);'>视频号</span><span style='font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;text-align: center;text-indent: 0em;'>观看《谈论，大声点》的常时版及花絮。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; 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