孩子长大后是否爱你，都藏在这1件事里
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8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong><span style='background-color: rgb(216, 79, 169); color: rgb(255, 255, 255);'> 写在后面 </span></strong></section><section><section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'>不只是亲子关系，不少人也会因为分享欲得不到朋友、伴侣的回应，而感到失望、受伤，甚至从此分道扬镳。</section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'>此外，也有一种观点认为：要管好自己的分享欲。</section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'>仿佛关系中的这些失落和不被回应，都该归咎于自己；受了伤，也是自己活该。</section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'>在我看来，这些分享更像是换了一种方式去表达：<span style='color: rgb(216, 78, 168);'><strong>我们都渴望分享欲被接住和回应，渴望在关系里能被看见。</strong></span></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'>我也在咨询室里遇到过不少人，在亲子关系、亲密关系里都会感到：旺盛的分享欲无处安放。</section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'>他们常常问我：</section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><em>到底是我太啰嗦，还是对方太敷衍？</em></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><em>我应该收敛自己的分享欲，还是干脆放弃这段关系？</em></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'>如果你也有过这样的困惑，我想鼓励你，先不要急着去“解决问题”，或者“追究责任”，<span style='font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em;'>而是试着去觉察：</span></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><em>对方不回应我的分享，我心里有怎样的感受？</em></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><em>如果我得到了渴望的回应，又会有怎样的想法？</em></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'>这些感受里，往往藏着关于自我和关系的答案。</section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'>它们解答的也许不是“该继续分享还是从此缄默”的问题，却能让我们一步一步地走进自己的内心，也更有可能跳出让自己反复受伤的关系模式，迎接真正的滋养和能量。</section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong>喜欢今天的漫画，也别忘了<span style='color: rgb(216, 78, 168);'>「分享」</span>出去哦</strong></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong></strong></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong></strong></section><section style='margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong></strong></section></section></section><section><section><section style='line-height: 1.75em;'><br></section></section></section><p style='color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 16px; margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;'><br></p></section></section></div> {:112_375:}{:112_375:}
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