逼疯贫穷青年的份子钱，都经历了哪些革新？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;' data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; visibility: visible;'><span style='color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▼</span></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>步入暑假已经有段时间了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>很多朋友一改往日特种兵的风格</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>将舒适当作旅行的要义</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>重点突出“有钱有闲”的中心思想</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>于是乎，一些忙着旅游的朋友们</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>趁着时间充足</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>有的顺带手的把婚也结了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><br></p><p style='text-align: center; padding-right: 0.5em; padding-left: 0.5em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(60, 60, 60) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;font-size: 17px;width: 333px;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='letter-spacing: 0.578px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>虽说结婚是喜事</span></p><p style='letter-spacing: 0.578px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>但随份子，却成了当代年轻人的一个“枷锁”</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'><br></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(150, 150, 150) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;font-size: 17px;width: 348px;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; visibility: visible;'>在这个<strong style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;'>请帖满天飞</strong>的年代，我们年轻人</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; visibility: visible;'>不是在<strong style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;'>随份子钱</strong>，就是在<strong style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;'>存份子钱</strong>的路上</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>这个令人闻风丧胆的份子钱<strong style='outline: 0px;'>到底是怎么来的？</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>下面请听文字君为大家<strong style='outline: 0px;'>一一道来</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 1px;'>▼</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.578px;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>提起份子钱</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>很多人都觉得好像<strong style='outline: 0px;'>自打懂事以来</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>大人们就已经是这样<strong style='outline: 0px;'>相互随礼</strong>的了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>仿佛这个传统已经延续了两千多年似的</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>然而在明清之前</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>古人</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>并没有</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>随份子钱的习俗</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'> </span></p><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 194px;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>最早发明份子钱的人可以追溯到<strong style='outline: 0px;'>朱元璋</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>朱元璋立国不久后</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>就对<strong style='outline: 0px;'>「乡饮酒礼」制度</strong>进行重新修订</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>并把</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>邻保相助</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>的精神</strong>写进了制度里</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>规定：</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>「凡我同里之人，各遵守立法.....</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>其婚姻丧葬有乏，随力相助。」</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 354px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>意思就是，如果哪一个</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>穷人家</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>要娶妻生子了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>那么乡里的村民就要<strong style='outline: 0px;'>合力救济一下</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>最好这家提供一点被褥，那家提供一些吃食</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>等今日你帮助别人<strong style='outline: 0px;'>渡过难关</strong>了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>日后自家有红白喜事时</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong style='outline: 0px;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>别人也会帮你一把</span></strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>慢慢地，这个规定逐渐演变为</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>随份子</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>明末清初时，</span><strong style='outline: 0px;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>凑份子</span></strong><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>一类的词已经很</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>常见</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>文学作品也多有描述，如——</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><strong style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>《红楼梦》第四十四回：</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>「若干人均摊等份额的钱同办一件事</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>老太太出主意让凑份子给凤姐过生日。」</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><strong style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>《儒林外史》第二十七回：</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>「搬家那日，两边邻居都送着盒</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>归姑爷也来行人情，出份子。」</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 256px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px;font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;'>/搞好邻里关系的第一步~/</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 1px;'>▼</span></p><p style='letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.578px;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);height: auto !important;'></span><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>虽说随份子钱这个<strong style='outline: 0px;'>习俗传承自明清</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>但</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>上升至人情债</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>还是<strong style='outline: 0px;'>近百来年</strong>的事情</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>份子钱刚出现的时候</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>就是一种<strong style='outline: 0px;'>带着祝福的民间融资</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>然而发展发展着就走歪了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>成了<strong style='outline: 0px;'>沉甸甸的包袱</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><strong style='outline: 0px;'><br></strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>清末时，随份子才发展为<strong style='outline: 0px;'>必不可少的婚庆礼节</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>那时候家家都有一本</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>礼簿</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>每逢接到婚嫁请帖</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>就要<strong style='outline: 0px;'>按照账目中的数字出份子</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span style='outline: 0px;font-size: 12px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);letter-spacing: 1px;'>/ 清道光十九年（1839年）礼簿/</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>建国初期大家<strong style='outline: 0px;'>普遍都很穷</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>大家又回到了</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>简单送礼</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>的年代</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>但凡遇到喜事就送块<strong style='outline: 0px;'>普通的布料</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><section style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 250px;height: auto !important;'></span></section><section style='text-align: center;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;'>/连结婚照也都很朴素/</span></section><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><strong style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>五六十年代时</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>大家转而送印着大红双喜的暖水壶</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>搪瓷盆、棉被等</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>日用品</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'> </span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 345px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;'>/鸳鸯、百合、红双喜，别提多喜庆/</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><strong style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>七十年代不需要吃婚宴</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>也不用给份子钱</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>新人结婚的话只用在亲友间</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>通知一下</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>就好了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'> </span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 327px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em;'><span style='outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;'>/以上物品，虽是七十年代结婚必备</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.5em;'><span style='outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;'>但并不会从朋友那里讨要来/</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><strong style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>但改革开放后</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>随着<strong style='outline: 0px;'>商品经济</strong>的深入人心</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>直接送钱</span></strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>的行为被全社会欣然接受</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>份子钱的<strong style='outline: 0px;'>画风骤然改变</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>大家送金送红包的风气一发不可收拾</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>从八十年代的二十块一直升到现在的</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>一千几百</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>短短三十年间份子钱已经<strong style='outline: 0px;'>翻了几十倍</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 182px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 1px;'>▼</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);letter-spacing: 0.034em;text-align: justify;height: auto !important;'></span><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>同样的份子钱</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>北方人称之为</span><strong style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>「份子」</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>南方人称之为<strong style='outline: 0px;'>「红包」</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>而广东人则把它称作</span><strong style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>「利是」</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>各地随份子的风俗</strong><span style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>差异</strong></span>也不小</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 227px;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>理论上来讲，份子钱随多少</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>应该</span><strong style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>按酒席的规格</strong><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>来计算</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>比如，一桌酒席值2000块，坐10个人</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>那么人均随200块的份子钱最恰当</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>但具体随多少</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>还得看</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>当地风俗</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>和</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>主宾亲疏关系</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>有些地方，人不到就无须给份子钱</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>而有些地方，人不到，份子钱也跑不了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 162px;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>某记账应用就统计过</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>上海、浙江的份子钱平均要1000元</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>北京、江苏、山东等地也高达800元</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>其余地区则大多位于<strong style='outline: 0px;'>200元至500元之间</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>只有广东跟云南犹如一股<strong style='outline: 0px;'>泥石流</strong>，</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>100元左右即可</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>那么问题来了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>为何经济高度发达的广东地区如此<strong style='outline: 0px;'>不气派？</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>是广东人没有<strong style='outline: 0px;'>人情味</strong>吗？</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>当然不是！</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>广东是一个</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>讲究宗族关系</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>的地方</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>摆喜酒的目的主要是为了<strong style='outline: 0px;'>维系宗族、回馈乡亲</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>大部分地方都会在<strong style='outline: 0px;'>份子钱的基数上</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>回礼五六成</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>而佛山的顺德、南海两地</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>更是把红包折个角或摸一摸就</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>直接返还给宾客</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>仅仅起到讨彩头的<strong style='outline: 0px;'>仪式感</strong>作用</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 140px;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>当然，以上讨论的都只是各地的<strong style='outline: 0px;'>平均价</strong>而已</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>现在人口流动这么频繁，各地婚俗相互影响</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>份子钱根本</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>没有指导价可言</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 1px;'>▼</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'> </span><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>喜酒名目</strong>总是<strong style='outline: 0px;'>花样繁多</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>婚礼、丧葬礼等重大仪式就不说了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>新房入住有<strong style='outline: 0px;'>乔迁礼</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>老人寿诞有<strong style='outline: 0px;'>祝寿礼</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>孩子满月有<strong style='outline: 0px;'>足月礼</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>小孩上学有<strong style='outline: 0px;'>升学礼</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>哪一个不是沉甸甸的<strong style='outline: 0px;'>人情债？</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 174px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>这份子钱</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>随也烦恼，不随也烦恼</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>主要表现在——</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>1.份子钱水涨船高，穷！随不起！</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>2.面子心理、攀比心理作祟</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>怎么随都有尴尬的地方</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>3.你来我往的人情账最难算清</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>4.拒绝难，又不能敷衍对待</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 218px;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>想当年，随礼都在一个<strong style='outline: 0px;'>熟人圈子</strong>内进行</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong style='outline: 0px;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>人际关系相对固定</span></strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>付出去的金额大可<strong style='outline: 0px;'>在将来的某一个时刻收回来</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>但现在的社会</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>早已从熟人社会变为</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>陌生人社会</strong></span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>了</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>每个人的人际关系都处于<strong style='outline: 0px;'>频繁变动</strong>的状态</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>加上独身主义、丁克主义</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>旅行结婚等<strong style='outline: 0px;'>零酒席人士</strong>逐渐增多</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>份子钱很难回本，甚至</span><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'><strong style='outline: 0px;'>有去无回</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 305px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 1px;'>/办事儿亲友与我的钱包/</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(204, 51, 51);'>▽</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>那么问题来了，到底份子钱怎么给合适？</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>文字君建议综合以下几点<strong style='outline: 0px;'>量力而行：</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>第一，当地习俗是怎样的？</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>第二，你跟主人家的关系如何？</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>第三，你的收入状况怎么样？</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;width: 196px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><br style='outline: 0px;'></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>如果实在不想被份子钱上面的金额绑架</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>也可以亲自挑一份<strong style='outline: 0px;'>独具匠心的礼物</strong></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>（当然等你自己办事儿的时候</span></p><p style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;'>就也别指望人家能随红包啦……）</span></p></div> 现实社会中随礼、份子钱、红包早已变质了，大概率是导致亲戚不亲了，朋友不友了……。更不利于小孩心理成长健康，从小开始给红包，导致小孩从小时候思维意识就认为钱最重要，钱比亲情重要，只有金钱至上的观念。长大以后形成了只认钱不认人的性格！这种习俗早就应该改革了！欧美国家红白喜事只发请贴不收礼金，亲戚朋友只去参加喜庆活动但是不随礼金。亲戚朋友之间关系更加和谐！ 都有
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