李湘女儿，成了东亚家庭的照妖镜？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><h4 style='outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible;' data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><section style='margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 24px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;visibility: visible;line-height: 1.6em;'><br></section></h4><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>互联网的风，总是一天一变。<br></span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>曾经的风向是“每个女孩都想成为欧阳娜娜”，最近却流行起了“下辈子我想当王诗龄”。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;font-size: 17px;width: 529px;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>在这个热搜词条横扫各大社交媒体之前，王诗龄给网友的印象是一个“胖乎乎的小女孩”。</span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>口碑之所以两极反转，是因为一张旧照。</span><br></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>今年5月，王诗龄在抖音发儿时的照片集祝李湘“母亲节快乐”。</span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>到了9月，这张照片被网友配上了“李湘看着王诗龄像在看艺术品”的文案，迅速传播。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;font-size: 17px;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>戳中网友的热评是：<strong>“很多人的一生，都没有被这样注视过<strong style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>。</strong>”</strong></span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>一时之间，关于“王诗龄不仅有钱，还有爱”的声音席卷全网。</span></strong></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>自暑期开始，互联网都沉浸在吐槽“扫兴的东亚父母”之中，李湘和王岳伦对王诗龄教育的细节被网友一一挖出。</span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>种种细节表明，他们完全是扫兴父母的反面。</span></strong></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>于是，关于“王诗龄”的一切都被重新解读，昔日的“炫富”变成了“爱的证据”。</span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>截至发稿前，李湘、王岳伦、王诗龄三个当事人在这个话题始终保持沉默。</span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>但关于王诗龄的热搜却远没有停止。</span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>她的一举一动都备受关注，短短几天就包揽了16个热搜：王诗龄晒健身照、520收到巨型玫瑰熊、跟何炅合照......就连和朋友去烘焙被网友拍到，都可以成为热搜词条。</span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>人们热衷于通过和王诗龄的对比，展示自己对健康亲密关系的向往、讲述自己在原生家庭遭受的痛苦。</span></strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><br></span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>在“下辈子我当王诗龄”的故事中，主角并非王诗龄，而是隐身于话题之下的1.6亿次点击。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.578px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.6em;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>也正因此，这个故事才更值得被讲述。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.578px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.6em;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-align: center;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);outline: 0px;visibility: visible !important;width: 677px !important;height: auto !important;'></span><br></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: right; line-height: 1.6em;'><span style='outline: 0px;color: rgb(251, 87, 7);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;'><strong style='outline: 0px;'><span style='outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 18px;'>被富养的王诗龄</span></strong></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="XrXx" data-default-linespacing="100" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>人们对于富家女的想象，王诗龄似乎都能满足。 </span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="XrXx" data-default-linespacing="100" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>4岁上综艺，5岁出席巴黎时装秀，6岁登台献唱，8岁画的孔雀图被炒到10万的高价拍卖。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="XrXx" data-default-linespacing="100" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>13岁时，王诗龄被送到英国博奈顿女校留学，每年光学费就要花35万。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="XrXx" data-default-linespacing="100" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>让网友惊叹是，她起居的宿舍，曾是英国王室现任长公主安妮的“故居”。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto !important;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>这所学校的初中部每个班有13名学生、高中部则更少，大概6-8名，全校只有550多名学生，师生配比为1 : 6。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>博奈顿女校的升学率非常高。2021年，37%的毕业生被英国排名前十的大学录取。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>每年有将近9%的人考上牛津、剑桥。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>而王岳伦曾在采访中透露，王诗龄想要去牛津大学读艺术。</span></section><section><section style='margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto !important;'></span></section></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="xTaY" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>王诗龄拥有的不只是高配教育资源，还有高配的朋友圈。</span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="xTaY" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>音乐大师刘欢教她弹琴，世界花样滑冰冠军陈露指导她滑冰，香港影帝张家辉教导她学游泳……</span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>相较之下，钱反倒是王诗龄拥有的最不值一提的东西。</span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="XrXx" data-default-linespacing="100" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-align: center;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;font-size: 17px;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="fyqx" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>从前网友抨击李湘炫富，“用金钱来堆砌的童年只会养成拜金女的价值观”。</span><br></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="fyqx" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>但现在，一切都成为爱女儿的证据。</span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="xTaY" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>在一档访谈类节目中，李湘曾分享身边的教育故事，掌握中、英、日三门语言，成为世界公民。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="xTaY" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>乍一看，这个路径和北京海淀、美国湾区鸡娃的妈妈们追求的没有什么区别。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="xTaY" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>但让网友动容的是，李湘话锋一转，说<strong>她希望王诗龄能选择一个喜欢的地方生活。</strong></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="xTaY" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>而不是，成为精英。</span></strong></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 578px;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="D89W" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>有钱、被爱、母亲松弛。</span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="D89W" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>王诗龄成为互联网“天选之女”，稳坐网友“投胎志愿”前三名。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;width: 529px;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="D89W" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);text-align: center;visibility: visible !important;width: 677px !important;height: auto !important;'></span><br></p><h4 style='outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;'><section style='margin-right: 16px;margin-bottom: 24px;margin-left: 16px;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-align: right;line-height: 1.6em;'><span style='color: rgb(251, 87, 7);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 18px;'><strong>人们最羡慕王诗龄什么？</strong></span></section></h4><p ql-global-para="true" line="lF4c" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>王诗龄起床第一件事，“挨夸”。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="4Ztb" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>李湘接受采访时说， 女儿从早到晚都沉浸在父母“你怎么那么美”的惊叹之中。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="4Ztb" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="zHzs" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>她画的桃子，会被李湘和王岳伦骄傲地晒在社交媒体，并配文：<br></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="zHzs" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>“暑假新作品！恭喜努力的小美妞！”</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="zHzs" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>在网友的记忆里，李湘每次主持湖南卫视春晚，都会当着全国观众的面说：</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="zHzs" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>“在这里也要祝一位叫做王诗龄的小朋友新年快乐。”</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 529px;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="zHzs" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>明目张胆的欣赏、鼓励、认可、偏爱。</span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="zHzs" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>这是网友眼中，王诗龄家庭生活的关键词。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="3Fw9" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>更让网友羡慕的是，王诗龄的父母，尊重她的感受。</span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>参加综艺《拜托了，冰箱》，主持人何炅问李湘“什么情况下会批评女儿“，这个问题让王诗龄倒吸一口凉气，瞪大了眼睛。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>何炅不肯放弃，俯下身看着王诗龄：“我们简单聊一聊然后迅速翻篇<span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>。</span>”</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>李湘转头看了看女儿，坚定地说，<strong> “我们不想在公开场合说她不好。”</strong></span></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>更早的时候，李湘带着王诗龄参加节目。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>现场问答环节，有小女孩问王诗龄：“我想问一下Angela，你的妈妈经常给你吃很多东西吗？我感觉你有那么一点点点点的胖。”</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>前一秒还在热情寻找提问者的王诗龄，迅速缩回李湘身边坐下，低下头抠起了话筒。<br></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>李湘否认了关于胖的攻击，随后柔声建议提问的小女孩：</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>“以后见到胖胖的女生，我们可以把说话方式稍微改变一下，比如说我们一起运动吧，大家会成为好朋友的<span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>。</span>”</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>很长一段时间里，互联网上都存在关于王诗龄身材的讨论，她甚至曾因胖上过热搜。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="tBJi" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>王岳伦在采访中也说，同学群里的男生嘲笑过王诗龄的身材，这让王诗龄“接受不了”，开始控制饮食。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>一向喜欢吃东西的王诗龄，“不停地看吃播”。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>说到女儿减肥的事情，王岳伦当着镜头红了眼眶，短暂地中断了采访。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>这个几秒钟的片段，被网友频繁转发，热门评论始终围绕着一句话：</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>“爱就是时常感到亏欠。他之所以哭，是因为王诗龄被同学贬损身材，而他身为父亲没法帮忙<strong style='font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>。</span></strong>”</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>父母双方都在全心全意关爱女儿，用尽全力托举女儿精神世界的家庭，在现实生活中是如此少见。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>网友们更熟悉的家庭生活中，父母精通“扫兴之道”。</span></strong></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>孩子做了一桌子菜感谢父母，却被责怪做多了浪费。</span></section><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);text-align: center;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.544px;height: auto !important;'></span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>女儿考上了中戏，录取通知书却被母亲偷走。</span></section><section style='letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;'><section style='margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>华裔女脱口秀明星一脸骄傲地告诉妈妈：“妈妈，你知道吗，在美国黑皮很美，我被当作美女。”</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>而她妈妈立刻否认，“你根本不是什么美女。”“你从小就是个小黑妞、小丑妞，我们都不喜欢你的嘴巴，像猪嘴一样。”</span></section><section><section style='margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>不是所有人都羡慕王诗龄的家境，但人人都想要她的父母。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>光是父母“不扫兴”这一点，王诗龄就“生在了罗马”。</span></strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><br></span></section><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: right;'><strong style='color: rgb(251, 87, 7); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 16px;visibility: visible !important;width: 677px !important;height: auto !important;'></span></strong></p><p style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: right;'><strong style='color: rgb(251, 87, 7); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>如何成为“</strong><strong style='color: rgb(251, 87, 7); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>王诗龄”？</strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="T0yk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>刚开始读幼儿园的时候，王诗龄被送到离家更近、硬件设施更好的公立幼儿园。</span><br></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>六一儿童节演出那天，天气特别热。所有小朋友全都“在阳光里面坐着晒着”，而老师们、领导们则“全在阴影里面”。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>演出先是领导讲话，然后是老师讲话，最后才是孩子们的表演。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>一天下来，王诗龄晒得脸红红的。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);text-align: center;font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.034em;height: auto !important;'></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>因为这件事，王岳伦决定转学，让女儿上国际学校，他说：</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>“硬件改变了，但教育理念没有变化，还是我们小时候接触的那一套东西。”</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>给王诗龄转学的原因，被网友称为“一种家庭观念上的进步”。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>父母“没有把吃苦美化为磨砺”，反而更加关注女儿的感受，“不担心被别人说娇气”，只想让王诗龄觉得舒服。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>如果说，赞美、鼓励、关爱，还可以归结为王诗龄的父母懂得如何爱孩子。</span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>那不认可教育方式就立刻转学的举动，则又一次回归到<strong style='font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>财富的托举。</span></strong></span></strong></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>8月31日，47岁的李湘发微博宣布：我已退休。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="T0yk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>21岁时，刚刚大学毕业的李湘就得到了主持《快乐大本营》的机会，成为湖南卫视“综艺一姐”。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="KUj6" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>28岁时，她自信已经成为“全中国最好的娱乐女主持”，却被母亲的一句</span><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>“你会干什么呀？你就会主持《快乐大本营》“刺激到，辞职北上创业。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="KUj6" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>自那以后，</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>时代的每一个风口上，都能看到李湘的身影。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="KUj6" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>传闻中李湘读大学时就已经开始在北京买房。</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="KUj6" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>甚至劝<span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>何炅“借钱也要在北京买房”。</span></span><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'></span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="jCow" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>2018年，李佳琦和薇娅还在争夺直播带货一哥一姐的头衔，明星大多作为客串出现在头部直播间。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="jCow" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>李湘却开了自己的直播间，成为第一个下场直播带货的明星。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="jCow" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>她不仅戴着大钻戒卖力推销9块9两支的口红，</span><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>甚至化身房产中介，在直播间推销卖房。</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>2019年双十一，李湘直播间累计成交金额1.3亿。</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'></span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="jCow" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>宣布退休后，坊间开始流传李湘各类财富传闻，</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>逼得王岳伦也得出来辟谣。</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="T0yk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>虽然传闻是假的，但李湘在网友眼里俨然成为强大母亲的代名词。</span></strong><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>和谷爱凌的妈妈谷燕一样，她们有能力为孩子提供好的生活、好的教育，还</span></span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>发自内心地欣赏自己的女儿。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong style='font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-wrap: wrap;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></span></strong></span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>与其说大家都想投胎变成王诗龄、谷爱凌，不如说大家都想在她们身上找到自己人生中缺失的那块拼图。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>看似不必费劲的人生，从天而降的好运，与生俱来的满分父母。<br></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>但可惜的是，中了基因彩票，拥有这一切的人始终都只是少数。</span></strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'></span></p><section style='text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: right;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong style='color: rgb(251, 87, 7); font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>无法成为王诗龄</strong></span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>就在一个月前，全网都想投胎的目标还不是王诗龄，而是江浙沪独生女。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px;margin-left: 16px;padding-right: 0.5em;padding-left: 0.5em;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;text-align: center;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(180, 180, 180) 0em 0em 0.5em 0px;'></span></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>根据互联网的蛛丝马迹，人们描绘出这个群体的生活画像：</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'><em><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>从小就读国际学校，毕业后不必执着于考编或找工作。</span></em></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='color: rgb(136, 136, 136);'><em><span style='font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>父母会给她们买房，不指望她们养家，只要不想着跑去创业，家里的钱根本花不完。</span></em></span><span style='font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'></span><strong style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);'></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>江浙沪独生女的画像，和蛛丝马迹中拼凑出的“王诗龄”如出一辙。</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;caret-color: var(--weui-BRAND);'>与其说江浙沪独生女和王诗龄的人生充满相似性，不如说网友们想要的生活始终如一：</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>没有创伤的童年，以及毫不费力的人生。</span></strong><strong style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);'></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>但无论是王诗龄还是江浙沪独生女的人生，对于绝大多数人而言，其实都更像是一面遥远的镜子。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>这面镜子的构成是网络拼凑出来的片段、地域刻板印象和基于对生活种种不如意而生发的埋怨与想象。<br></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-size: 16px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>但镜子永远都只是镜子，而不是生活本身。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);'></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>从精英们亲子故事中抽离出来，我们不得不承认：</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>大多数人的父母，没有条件给孩子提供这样的生活。</span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>比起子女是否快乐，普通人更担心孩子长大后找不到好工作。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>为了不让孩子输在起跑线上，把还在读</span>小学的孩子送去上补习班、兴趣班。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>而</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>他们自己则拼命工作，不敢拒绝领导加班的要求，低声下气托自己爹妈或另一半到学校和兴趣班接送孩子。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="Jeum" ql-global="true" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; 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letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>“不写作业母慈子孝，一写作业鸡飞狗跳</span><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>”，情绪崩溃只是小问题，被“气出心梗、脑梗“似</span></span><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>乎也是平常事。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><br></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>2020年9月份，一位45岁的爸爸辅导孩子作业，情绪波动剧烈，突发急性心肌梗死。要不是及时送医，恐怕会有生命危险。</span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><br></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);width: 645px;visibility: visible !important;height: auto !important;'></span></span></section><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><br></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="kydU" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>大多数家庭，孩子固然疲惫，大人也并不轻松。</span></span></strong><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;'></span></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="kydU" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>要求父母时刻保持理</span><span style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>智，时刻尊重孩子的感受，是非常苛刻的。</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'></span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="kydU" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>工作的烦恼、竞争的压力、育儿的焦虑时刻挤压着他们，让他们无法保持优雅。</span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="p9EB" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>普通人拼尽全力，也只能让孩子“到什么时候做什么事”，让下一代成为一个有份工作、有个家庭的普通人。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="p9EB" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>至于努力成为普通人的过程中，究竟有过多少矛盾，受过多少委屈，留下多少遗憾，他们已经无力深究。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="p9EB" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>只能在孩子抱怨的时候感慨一句：“谁不是这么过来的呢？”</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="p9EB" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>最会反思的父母，至多也只会说“我也是第一次当父母”。</span></p><section><section style='display: inline-block;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;height: auto !important;'></span></section></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="zbL6" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>正是因为普通人的生活中总是充满了各种各样的不如意与求而不得。</span><br></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="zbL6" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>我们总是会很轻易地滑落到这样的结论：</span></p><section style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin-bottom: 8px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>假如我有更多的钱，我一定会更幸福；</span><br></section><p ql-global-para="true" line="zbL6" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>假如我有更有钱的父母，我一定会更幸福。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="zbL6" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>但我</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>们每个人都平等地拿到了一次世界的体验券，正是每一段</span><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>独一无二的经历才构成了“我之为我”，才构成了这个世界的参差多态。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="zbL6" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 24px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;'>而衡量幸福的标准也从来都不只是金钱这么简单。</span></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>只有亲自身经历的，才真正属于自己。</span></strong><br></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>比起把美好的想象加诸别人身上，不如花时间和情感弥补那些遗憾：</span><strong style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'></span></strong></p><p ql-global-para="true" line="ehFk" style='margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.6em; visibility: visible; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "system-ui", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px;'><strong style='letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);'><span style='outline: 0px;visibility: visible;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;'>更爱自己一点，必要时“把自己重养一遍”。</span></strong></p></div>
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