如果人生重来，你还生小孩吗？这10位妈妈 的回答，扎心了！
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; visibility: visible; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); text-align: center; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; visibility: visible; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;display: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 677px !important;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;text-align: center;width: 100%;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">今天想跟大家聊一个话题：“</span><strong style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">如果人生能重来，你还会生小孩吗？</strong><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">”</span><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;"><br></span></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">想聊这个话题是因为，上周末和朋友拉家常时，她突然冒出了一句：“如果人生能重来一次，我绝对不会生孩子！”</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">紧接着她问我：“如果有重来的机会，你还会生吗？”</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">我犹豫了很久，不知道怎么回答。</span></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">于是带着这个疑问，我小范围地“调研”了一下身边有孩子的朋友。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">或许听听他们的想法，能找到这个问题的答案。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;text-align: center;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(47, 47, 47);font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 2px;display: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 214px !important;"></span></span></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果人生能重来</span></strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我想自由地活而不是憋屈地过</span></strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></strong></span></section><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">“如果有下辈子，我希望我妈也别生我……”</span></p><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">我忍不住追问朋友为什么。她说：</span></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><o:p data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">“你想啊，人生只有一件事是自己没办法做决定的，那就是你被生出来。</span></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">首先，我不确定孩子愿不愿意来到这个世界上。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">而且现实经验告诉我，这个世界不开心的事太多，我体会不到快乐。</span></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">有了孩子后要面对更多的不开心，还要以身作则为了孩子改变自己，真的很累……</span></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><o:p data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">我自认为工作和生活还是比较顺遂的，但如果真能重来，我更想要自由…”</span></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">之前看过一个研究数据，来自46个国家的780位女性，其中79%的人不愿生子的首要理由就是对独立和自由的渴望。</span></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 17px;outline: 0px;caret-color: var(--weui-BRAND);letter-spacing: 0.034em;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 178, 178); outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; caret-color: var(--weui-BRAND); letter-spacing: 0.034em; box-sizing: border-box !important;">图源：《伦敦生活》</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(178, 178, 178); outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; caret-color: var(--weui-BRAND); letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">丧偶式育儿，也是妈妈们后悔生、不想生的重要原因。</span></strong><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;"></span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><br></section><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">有孩子后，很多妈妈选择全职在家，身边人的生活毫无波澜，只有自己的生活翻天覆地，生活空间变得只剩下一间屋子。</span></section><p style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9);font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;font-size: 17px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;width: 645px;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;">图源：短片《妈妈的日常》</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1; font-size: 16px;">要独自面对哭了要妈哄，病了要妈陪，总是“挂”在身上的孩子，还有一堆繁重的家务活，连吃饭、上厕所的时间都没有。</span></p><section style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; outline: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;text-align: center;width: 645px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;">图源：短片《妈妈的日常》</span></section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1; font-size: 16px;">老公就像个摆设，毫无作为。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">在家几乎一把活不干，只负责刷手机；孩子起夜从不帮忙，而是在旁边呼呼大睡；高兴的时候逗孩子玩个5分钟，不想带的时候躲厕所。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1; font-size: 16px;">希望他多抽出点时间顾家，却理直气壮地说我早出晚归也是为了赚钱养家，养孩子。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;">图源：短片《妈妈的日常》</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">带娃的苦楚无人体会，还要遭受各种冷嘲热讽，一喊累就被回怼：“谁让你当妈的！一个娃都带不了要你干吗！”</span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;">图源：短片《妈妈的日常》</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">职场妈妈也很累，上班工作，下班带娃，永远要做两份全职工。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">自己的选择自己认，却总有人要让职场妈妈在事业和家庭中做出一个选择。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">演员倪虹洁在拍摄时，台词扎心到让她哽咽，气到颤抖的嘴说出了所有职场妈妈的心声：“我就是既要家庭，又要工作！”</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">工作和家庭都要，这是每个女性都有的权利。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;"></span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">但现实是，孩子明明是两个人的，绝大多数妈妈却独自肩负起教养的重任，背负着各种偏见。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">就像电视剧《三十而已》顾佳说的那样：“当妈以后，最大的感受就是憋屈！”</span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></o:p><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;">图源：电视剧</span></o:p></o:p><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;">《三十而已》</span></o:p></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></o:p></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">所以妈妈们有了共同的心声：</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">如果让我再选一次，我宁愿一个人过。</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">不结婚，不生娃，不带娃，</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">不做谁的妻，不做谁的妈，不做谁的媳，</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;"><br></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">只做自己……</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;display: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 224px !important;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果人生能重来我会生</span></strong></span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;">因为有娃很甜蜜</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">我另外一个朋友，当了快8年的全职妈妈，每天24小时围着两个孩子打转。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">也听她吐槽，自己远嫁到外地，从父母手心的小公主变成了邋遢的老妈子，老公不给力，每天操碎了心。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">可在回答这个问题时，却是爱意满满。她说：</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">“如果还是个女的，会生。因为养小孩的过程回味起来很甜。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; widows: 1;"><br></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; widows: 1;">她还认真地写了篇小作文给我。</span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.544px;outline: 0px;text-align: center;width: 677px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">孩子的出现，治愈了她的心灵，给了她爱的力量，满满的自我成长和幸福感。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">网友<strong>@我有一只小柚子 </strong>也有相同的体验：</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">如果再给我一次机会，我还选择会生。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">虽然也怀念以前那些刷剧、逛街买买买的快乐，但都是瞬时的多巴胺刺激。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">当下是快乐的，但这种强烈的快乐感也会骤然消失。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">然而，有孩子的幸福感是不一样的。它就像是已经扎根进了心房，时刻滋润着。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">走路、吃饭、工作时，只要一想起孩子，心里就突然会溢满幸福。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;text-align: justify;outline: 0px;caret-color: var(--weui-BRAND);letter-spacing: 0.034em;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;">图源：《做家务的男人》</span></o:p><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">网友<strong>@fayeer</strong> 更是甜到不行。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">原本婚后生活就很幸福，有了孩子后更幸福。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">老公对她的爱非但没有被分割，反而变得更多。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">孕期帮她洗内裤、剪脚趾甲，陪做产检；</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;widows: 1;">孩子出</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;widows: 1;">生后包办一切——哄睡、换尿布、喂奶，哭了第一时间响应。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">当然也有敷衍的时候，但这才是真实的状态，是幸福的烟火人间！</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">孩子的出现，会让幸福的人更幸福，所有的苦和泪，都会被幸福化成甜。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;display: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 180px !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如果这个选择放在爸爸身上</span></strong></span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;">会怎么选？</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></strong></span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">要不要生孩子，生了后不后悔，只问妈妈似乎不太公平。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">所以我也问了下身边的爸爸，比如我老公。</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;">他给我的回答极其简单，却很耐人寻味：</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">“会生，因为要符合传统观念。不过要保持中庸之道，不得罪所有人。”</span></strong><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;"></span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">我们家是反过来的。我的工作很忙，经常在外出差，所以串串大多数时候是跟爸爸在一起。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">虽然男人带娃难免有些粗糙，但老公对孩子的教育还是用心的。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">每次我出差回来，只要时间允许，老公会带着串串去机场接我。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">看到串串张开双手飞奔向我，老公在不远处开心地笑，这一刻觉得好温暖啊。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">如果人生能重来，还是这个老公，我应该还会再生孩子吧。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">也有爸爸后悔结婚生子。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">原因并不是妻子不好，孩子不可爱，而是因为自己没能力。</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;widows: 1;">婚</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;widows: 1;">后没有让老婆享过福，更担心将来孩子难以融入社会……</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">或许，爸爸们并不像我们口中说的那样对养育冷漠。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">他们只是更习惯于独自承受巨大的经济压力、精神压力，以及我没有能力教好孩子的自卑与自责中。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">之前刷到朴树的采访视频，他坦言了婚后坚决不生孩子的原因。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">“人生太苦，我可以承担这种苦，却不忍心让孩子受苦；我没有自信，没有把握去教好一个孩子。”</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">原来不管男女，在养育这件事上都会陷入自我怀疑，因为认真负责的人，都认真思考过孩子的未来。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">不过我也在想，生活少不了吵闹和麻烦。但只要夫妻齐心，就有了面对一切困难的勇气。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">就像网友<strong>@胖嘟嘟的大羽</strong> 分享了孩子睡后的二人世界。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">结婚5年，每天深夜的夫妻时间就是放下手机，分享各自一天的忙碌，互相给对方捶肩捏背，加油鼓劲。</span></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;">视频来源：胖嘟嘟的大羽毛</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">他们是夫妻，是两个孩子的爸妈，更是好朋友，是讲义气的好兄弟，共同为简单、幸福的四口之家努力着。</span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-align: center;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;display: initial;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 195px !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;">人生没有重来<br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;">生与不生或许它能帮你找到答案</span></strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(61, 170, 214); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">“如果人生能重来，你还会生小孩吗？”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">这是一个假设性问题。我们都知道，人生不可能重来。</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;">但在思考这个问题时，可以让我们深刻地感知：</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">“有了孩子后，我幸福吗？”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">知乎上很多人在讨论，生孩子会不会让女人幸福。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">幸福的女人当了妈，孩子是一往无前的勇气和动力。</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;">不幸福的女人当了妈，孩子则变成了生活的磨难。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">其实呀，幸不幸福从来都不在孩子身上，而在于自己。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">我们结婚是为了获得幸福，生孩子则是为了持续获得幸福。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">幸福是非常主观的个人体验，不同人处于不同的生命阶段，对于幸福的理解、定义和来源是不同的。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">卡耐基说：<strong>“幸福不依赖于你拥有什么，而取决于你想的是什么。”</strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">“人间清醒”傅首尔曾对自己的幸福做过拆解。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">她把事业放在第一位，因为实现自我价值能够让她幸福。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">对于婚姻，她希望从另一半那获得的幸福是安全感、稳定和信赖。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">瞧，不管傅首尔怎么选，寻求幸福的出发点始终是自己。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">了解自己对幸福的期待，对自己、对另一半、对家庭，也会有了全新的认识。</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">如果你还没有结婚，你要的幸福是什么？</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;"><br></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;">如果你结婚了还没有孩子，你要的幸福是什么？</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;"><br></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;">如果你已经生了，你要的幸福又是什么？</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">保持单身、恋爱、结婚、生子，都是选择。</span></strong><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;">每种选择都有遗憾。</span></strong></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: 宋体, SimSun; letter-spacing: 0.544px; widows: 1;">当发现自我，尊重自我，保持自我时，</span></strong><strong style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;">走过的路纵使伤痕累累，也依然很美。</span></strong></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;text-align: justify;outline: 0px;caret-color: var(--weui-BRAND);letter-spacing: 0.034em;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;">图源：《我在伊朗长大》</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(178, 178, 178); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;">点个<strong>“在看”</strong>，希望每个人都能获得属于自己的幸福。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;widows: 1;">“如果人生能重来，你还会生小孩吗？” 欢迎在评论区留言，分享你的感悟～</span></p></div>
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